nedelja, 28. junij 2015

MISSING EX boyfriend

nedelja, 28. junij 2015

MISSING EX boyfriend

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"No matter what you say, you will never forget your first love."

This is just something I read a few days ago and I decided I should tell you my opinion on it, since I was thinking a lot about it. It bothers me that people post this quotes online, which makes people think about sad times. I can totally say for myself that I would be much happier if I wouldn't read all that shit online, that is sad and depressed. But I can't really help it, since all of us spend a lot time online, it's not like I can pretend I don't see it.  


It is pretty obvious that you wont forget your first love, or crush. You will always remember things that happened in your life, good or bad, so I guess this quote is a bit stupid, but I think it was meant to say that no matter who you date, it wont be the same as your first love. No matter what, you will still miss them. I am here to tell you that that is false. If you are in love, if you love somebody, then you don't feel anything for anybody else, because you are so busy trying to give them everything. Don't try to convince me that you can miss your ex and be in love with your current boyfriend. No. I believe that at some point you can get confused, when something goes wrong, because feelings are just feelings. You can't really control those, but that is just a confusion that passes in no time.

Here is a good advice: If you think about your ex boyfriend, when you're dating someone else, for a long period of time, you are clearly in a wrong relationship and you should end it sooner or later. Better sooner.

I get it - there are hard times in every relationship and you get confused, but when it gets better, you shouldn't be confused anymore. You owe your honesty to your current boy/girl, the one who is there for you, who probably loves you and you will clearly break their heart. You can deny it, you can just let it be like this, but it won't work. If you think a lot about your ex, you are clearly not over it, face it. 
And NO, it's not okay to think about someone else, when you're having sex. I studied this topic, I searched for quite a few opinions on this, because I really disagree with it and everyone is saying that it is perfectly natural to sleep with your boyfriend and think about your ex, "it happens to everyone" apparently. It doesn't happen to people who are crazy in love, I can tell you this, because I know.


I think that you really should see what you have and if it's not good enough for you than you should end it. I am slowly realizing that life is actually not that complicated. But surely you can make it complicated, but I think it's easier if you make it simple. It is really not that hard. Yes, I know that I am really not a good example, but am really trying to sort stuff out this days. I have been thinking about one particular person from my past and I realized that it only fucks your head. Don't do that. Forget the people who hurt you, choose to forget and try to be happy. Some people really appreciate you just the way you are. 


I just wanted to tell you my opinion on it, because I know that a few of you struggle with bad breakups, new relationships and just being young and confused and thats okay. No matter how hard it gets, you have to do the right thing. Thats it, now I will go to sleep, because I am already late for 40 minutes. ;*
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ponedeljek, 15. junij 2015

ADOPT A TORTOISE

ponedeljek, 15. junij 2015

ADOPT A TORTOISE

I must admit, I have never thought that I would have OR like tortoises. One day I just woke up and started searching cute turtles and tortoises pictures online and in few weeks it turned to a tortoise hunt. To be honest I think I got kinda obsessed with it. Like I googled so many species that I can honestly tell you all about every breed haha. yes, I know I am talking about a tortoises, but hey made my life so much more interesting and I can honestly say that I will never give this up, because they make me happy.




This is my little Daisy. This is a picture of the first day she came into our family. She is going to be in my life for at least 60 years.






First of all, they are super interesting. I always have to deal with overdose cuteness with every meal, every time we go outside, or when they are playing (yes they do play) or basically every time I get to spend my time with them. I remember myself studying their personalities when I first met them, and I can tell you about relationships they have with each other. Let me just tell you about the fact that they look boring and slow and just not the animal for an adventurous person. But they are. They took plenty of your time. I spend like at least a half of an hour just in the morning to prepare food for them and bath them and clean them. I take them outside with me and Thor and Jan almost everyday. They are not the right animal for you if you're just gonna put them in a box and don't take time for them. They get attached to people they trust, and thats not a joke. I had to deal with some serious untrusting when I adopted them. That means they run away from strangers and keep their head inside and just be crazy. They never bite, unless they mistake your hand for food, but their bite doest hurt, so you don't have to worry about that. If you take care of them properly, I don't think you have any problems at all. I read all the time online that tortoise is a pet for people, who don't have time for other pets and hate dirty work, I mean that is just crazy. I thought so too, but they almost take as much time as my buddy Thor and he is a German Boxer. I have to clean after them, because they aren't as clean as you imagine right now. They can get sick in a heartbeat. If they get sick, you are almost powerless, if they don't want to cooperate with you. Don't get me wrong, they are not a bad companion and there aren't just bad things with owning a tortoise, but I am trying to say that they are not just a piece of cake. 











A very dirty girl. It took me a few days to clean that off of her, because they are delicate and you have to be extra careful not to hurt them.





No matter how hard you try to arrange a perfect home for them, they will keep rearranging it their way and they will keep growing up. I have to get them a bigger home this summer, and I have them just a little longer than a year. My Sulcata tortoise will grow up to 1,5m. I know that is a lot. She is the third biggest specie in the planet and you can have smaller tortoise, of course, I just decided I want Sulcata, because I am in love with them. Greek tortoises don't grow so much, and they are super cute and easy to take care of. You know... I mean, you can feed them with normal things or just put them outside and let hem eat dandelions, and they will be perfectly happy with it. 

They need to hydrate. They don't need water 3 times a day, but I like to give them warm baths in the mornings or at least 5 times a week, if I don't think they really need it. I have two different lighting bulbs in my terrarium. I can't wait for the day, I move out of my parents home and put them in a lovely garden, but until that day, they need a heat bulb and an UV B bulb (which nurtures their shell). 





This is the first picture of Camellia, when I brought her home. She looks all better now, she is super fast and not scared and just a perfect Sulcata.





I love my tortoises, they are so funny when they sneeze and they are so funny when they try to take food on the other side of their home. When they trust you, they will go to you when they see you and will climb on your hand and just give you the love. I put them in my bed and watch them explore 'a whole new world' and I used to take naps with them. I have major problems with sleeping and they basically help me take afternoon naps or fall asleep. My dog gets along with them great, I give them to him and he takes care nobody hurts them, he sleeps normally with them he would just never hurt them, so that is a plus. 





This is Rosie.
She was extremely sick, she didn't want to eat and stopped walking.















Thor and Camellia chilling together. They are like best friends.










They look so small on my bed. But they love to explore new places. They are always together. Daisy and Camellia are like best friends.








Bath time. The vet advised me to bath them in warm water, so here is a good tip.









They sleep in the most adorable way ever. The are both adorable. he cutest thing is that they are ALWAYS TOGETHER. They never separate.
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