nedelja, 02. oktober 2016

BAD HABIT

You got yourself a bad habit.

Let's talk boys today, okay? Okay!

Girls who chase guys are just crazy in my opinion. Don't understand me wrong, there is nothing wrong if you text him first and if you say nice things, but being the only one who makes a relationship work is eventually going to not work for you. And I am just saying that, because you can't see it, no girl, who is that deep into it, can see it and you don't deserve to be with someone who just sits and waits for you to do your thing. It might take you a few years to figure that out and by then it will be too late, because you will spend so much time for something that didn't work in the beginning, you just couldn't see it. It has to be mutual.
Bad habit is what I call it. Because honey, I promise you, if he will want to talk to you, he will call you and if he will want to see you, he will show up. If he will want to take you somewhere or make you feel good and special, he will do it, because he wants to do it. If he doesn't, then maybe you should consider if your love and time are worth it. Don't beg for his attention, because then you'll make a habit out of it and in a few years you will still be stuck with this habit and you will be a girl who has to beg for the rest of her life, and I just think that you deserve better.

Girls fall in love too quickly. You can't just fall in love with someone who has same interests as you do or with someone who looks nice and things like that. Because then you realise that he is just not what you want him to be and you are already in love and you basically go crazy because of it. It is all going so fast I can't even keep up with all of you. Why is it so hard for you to first be friends and talk to him for more than two minutes and see how he works when he is under pressure, or how he reacts to sad or messy situations. How he makes his tea and what is he thinking at 4 in the morning. You have to really get to know a person to be in love, you can't just say kaboom I am in love. Maybe it is just me, but I am really trying hard to stay away from difficult situations.
Some people just fall in love to feel something and it breaks my heart. You have to love yourself first and be able to make yourself happy, without any help. Why do you think that if you can't be happy right now, that some guy will come and make you happy or even worse... that he will save you? No, you have to save yourself. It doesn't matter what it takes, I don't care - go to the doctor, but fix yourself up. You gotta. Personally, what my problem is haha that is gonna sound so strange, but when I felt like that was it - that I love someone, I got so nervous and so afraid, I would just start panicking and walking away and I got this sick feeling all over my body. It felt like my body was resisting love so hard haha I swear I almost puked in the sink. Sounds so romantic, doesn't it. Maybe I am just too afraid to fall in love. 

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