torek, 29. avgust 2017


Thinking about the finality of it all, the conclusion is that you should really settle for the person, who makes your life adventurous and just in general better than it already is. So many times we settle for friends who steal your ideas, weight you down and just not be the good friends you deserve, but we settle for that and the reason is, because we think they are the best friends we can find. But there are so many better matches for us and just because we are familiar with the old doesn't mean we should stick to that. We should actually find new things, more exciting things and friends and lovers, because if you think about it... Life is short. Not literally, but just the fact that you only get one - are you really going to spend it with the wrong crowd?

I am definitely not. With the wrong words, I am trying to say that if your man doesn't try everyday to be the best man for you - ditch the bitch. And if you are not doing that to him, I am sorry, but ditch yourself, bitch. I didn't mean to insult you, but that 'bitch' at the end felt so poetic and I am dramatic.  While growing up, I realised that actually everyone can feel if they click together with someone or not. Humans are not really made to click with every single person, but we definitely click with a lot of people, and its really not that hard to find someone who you click with.

Just take time and work on yourself, you really need to discover who you are to be a good friend, lover and anything you put your mind to. Because success is actually built on who you feel you are. And if you feel that you are really good at what you do, you will push yourself to be good at it. If you believe you will pass math exam, you will study as hard as you fucking can and pass it. If you are in love with someone, you make it work, because they are worth it. You see where I am going with this right? Every ship (relationship, friendship etc.) starts with you. And obviously the other person. But if you are good to someone, they will probably return the favour.

In the past two months I figured out that I want to do different things. Different from what I am doing right now. I want to do kinkier things, more exciting, bold. Sunglasses on, badass songs on and discover who you are, even if you don't fit the norm. Even if its not nice or easy. Girl power! Guy power!

Evs loves every single one of you!

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